“You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies” (Psalm 23:5 NIV).
Does it sound like David was stressed out? No! He didn’t have to use up all his energy defending himself because he trusted God to be his defender.
It takes a lot of faith and humility to rest and trust God when you’re under attack, when you’re misunderstood, and when rumors are spreading about you. When that happens, everything in you wants to rise up and do something about it. How do you handle people who attack you? You don’t. You let God handle them.
Trust God to be your defender.
Not only does God want to defend you, but he also wants to fellowship with you: “You’ll welcome us with open arms when we run for cover to you. Let the party last all night! Stand guard over our celebration” (Psalm 5:11 The Message).
This is a banquet, or a party, at an unlikely time—not just when good times are happening but when you’re under attack.
God says, “I know you’re in the heat of the battle right now. You’re fighting for your job. You’re fighting for your health. You’re fighting for your sanity. You’re fighting for your dignity. While the battle is going on, I want to throw a banquet for you to offer just a little encouragement.” It’s a party in a combat zone. It’s a banquet on a battlefield.
If you’re a child of God, your heavenly Father is proud of you. Critics may spite you, slander you, ignore you, ridicule you, or libel you, but they can’t stop God’s blessing on your life.
“He brought me to his banquet hall and raised the banner of love over me” (Song of Solomon 2:4 TEV).
“This is what we are living for”
A shared goal in your marriage will weld and bind you together better than anything else. He who consciously sets goals in God’s presence will fulfill
his will, just like David: David died after he served his contemporaries according to God’s will (see Acts 13:36).
And what could be better than at the end of your life hearing Jesus say: “You have done well, God’s faithful servants, my friends! Thank you!”
It is favorable if you can formulate short-term and long-term goals: goals for the week, a year, a purpose of life.
In the hectic everyday life they sharpen the focus on what is important. For this is what we defined with our set goals.
Formulate the aim of your marriage.